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Well, you were asking for it, daring to be a woman!

May 10th, 2006

Just saw this: Female Chat Names Generate More Threats

Next time you chat online, think twice about your screen name. A new study finds that using a female screen name like Cathy, Melissa or Stephanie is more likely to elicit threatening and sexually explicit messages.

In the study, automated chat-bots and human researchers logged on to chat rooms under female, male and ambiguous screen names, such as Nightwolf, Orgoth and Stargazer.

Bots using female names averaged 100 malicious messages a day, compared with about four for those using male names and about 25 for those with ambiguous names. Researchers logging on themselves produced similar results.

Michel Cukier, the study’s author and a professor at the University of Maryland’s Center for Risk and Reliability, said the findings show the risks of placing personal information on the Internet, “even disclosing just your first name.”

Cukier said the difficulty of writing computer programs, or scripts, that can tell the difference between males and females online shows the menacing messages were not generated automatically.

“These are real users who seem to look for female names,” Cukier said.

The results are to be published in the proceedings of the Institute of Electronics and Electrical Engineers’ International Conference on Dependable Systems and Networks, which will be held in June.

Parry Aftab, an online-safety experrt, said she was not surprised.

“It’s sad that we have to say to men and women, but especially women, ‘Don’t give away too much information and that includes your gender,’” she said. “There’s no reason for people to have to know that you’re a woman.”

This is pretty messed up, but it’s something that most women online could have told you already. I’ve observed more than once the disturbing and sometimes hilarious difference in treatment I receive online when people don’t know my gender. People are more likely to listen to me and treat me with respect online when they think I’m man (and that’s assumed, since a surname like “Earlbecke” should pretty much be gender neutral yet somehow it’s not).

Anyway, I find it outrageous and sad that women are being told they have to hide their gender in order to be safer online. Gender should be a non-issue. The crime of simply being born female shouldn’t be enough to warrant harassment. But here you have it. Just one more example of how women are targeted for verbal abuse just on the basis of the gender alone and nothing more.

I really don’t feel like I have much commentary to add to this one.

4 Responses to “Well, you were asking for it, daring to be a woman!”

  1. SRN Says:

    I started going by a gender neutral name in real life years ago. I don’t remember what prompted it, other than some deep seated desire to be anonymous on paper, I guess. I absolutely love overhearing people say that “X should be here soon” and then I say I’m X and the look on their faces.

    I’m reading “The Gift of Fear” right now — phenomenal book. Nothing I could say about it would do it justice. Highly recommended.

  2. earlbecke Says:

    I really like to watch the reactions when people assume I’m white/male/whatever from my pen name and then it becomes clear than I’m not any of those. This blog is pretty much the only place where I really talk about my gender, so reactions here are way more hostile than anywhere else online.

    I’ve heard a lot about that book. I suppose I’ll go look for it at the library or something when I have the time.

  3. Definition - A Feminist Weblog » I just thought this was interesting. Says:

    [...] I think this relates to the article on women being disproportionately harassed online. It’s the same attitude, coming from the same place. Just being a woman is enough to make you an appropriate victim (after all, how many female rape victims are presumed to be “asking for it” simply for wearing certain clothes or being friendly, things which are simultaneously promoted as somehow intrinsically”feminine”?), but if you’re a woman and you dare to have an opinion… WELL. [...]

  4. Nightway Says:

    I think its just sad that women get treated like this.

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