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Archive for January, 2007

So, on the radio this morning…

Monday, January 29th, 2007

Male DJ: Did you know that men spend more time planning for the Super Bowl than for Valentine’s Day?
Female DJ: I’m not surprised.

My thoughts: Well, yeah, sure, men who are interested in football, anyway. (That might even be most men, I don’t know–none of the guys I know are into football.) And why not? Why shouldn’t they be more interested in planning a party for an event they’re actually interested in, rather than planning how to show their love in a suitably cliche, homogenized fashion on an arbitrary date with too much importance placed on it? The stereotype is that most men think Valentine’s Day is a chore, a reluctant obligation, and I really don’t blame them. I think so too. I’d rather make plans to do something I find exciting, also.

So, yeah…male stereotype that guys care more about sports than romance, but really…lots of people care more about their hobbies than shit like Valentine’s Day. It’s probably a good thing.

If you are reading this post…

Wednesday, January 10th, 2007

Then that means everything is well and all content has been successfully transferred to the new host! Hooray!

Point of interest: you can now access this url through either http://www.melted-dreams.net/definition OR http://definition.earlbecke.com. I’m keeping the Melted Dreams domain indefinitely ’cause I don’t want to break everybody’s links and I don’t want to screw up my Technorati plugins (I mean, it’s not a huge deal, but I like being able to easily see who’s linked me).

More on The “Ashley Treatment”

Saturday, January 6th, 2007

Blue has posted some good links to editorials about the Ashley Treatment. This article really struck me.

If you believe in basic human rights, you have to extend them to all humans. You can’t say that you believe in human rights, but not for people who can’t articulate their value. You can’t say that you believe in human rights but not for people who would be better off dead. If you’re able to tell yourself that in this one case, it was okay for parents to mutilate their daughter with absolutely no cause, and no medical argument, then you need to rethink your definition of basic human rights.

That’s why it’s important to talk about this. That’s why it’s important to condemn it.

People with disabilities are first and foremost people with rights. This includes a basic right to bodily integrity. It’s very sad to me that feminists can forget that so easily. You cannot work for equality if you do not work to uphold the rights of all people. (It seems self-evident. Like so many things, apparently, it is not.)

I think this post by Thirza is worth reading. She looks at the Ashley Treatment through the lens of her personal experience with a disabled sister.

Sour Duck has linked to some other posts about the subject. And here’s more at The Procrastinator’s Handbook.

I’m still disappointed that there’s not more outrage in the major feminist blogs. (Amanda at Pandagon’s response can only be described as completely bizarre. Piny hasn’t made a post yet but he’s been active on other threads so I expect to see something at Feministe soon. Feministing? Who the hell knows?) But if this whole matter has made one thing clear it’s that I need to have more disability rights bloggers besides the Gimp Parade in my regular reading list.

Burnout and the lack thereof

Friday, January 5th, 2007

I think I might be back-sorta. I don’t know. I just often don’t feel up to writing on this blog, or if I do, by the time I have a chance to write about whatever’s on my mind I’ve stopped caring.

Interestingly, I don’t feel a sense of burnout because of people’s reactions to what I say. I can handle criticism. I don’t really much care what people think about me. I can handle it. (Although I’m not going to let people waste my webspace by posting comments in which they call me a cunt. That’s not actually censorship, BTW, to those who feel so inclined; accusations of such will be cackled at and deleted anyway.) And it’s not that there’s just so many horrible things in the world that I get overwhelmed, that I don’t want to bother trying…I’m nothing if not stupidly ambitious.

It’s just there are too many things to write about. How do I pick and choose? If I focus on the issues of interest to me, I feel like I’m ignoring much bigger more important issues. I worry people will think I don’t care about those things, and I do, it’s just I only have so much time in the day and I’d rather just write down whatever theory is currently in my head. There’s just so many things to focus my attention on, and I can’t physically manage to cram it all into this blog… So I feel more burnt-out by the presence of my own limitations than anything else (heh, story of my life).

But there’s always something going through my head. There’s always something outrageous to write about. There’s always something so horrible I feel like I can’t not say anything…because sometimes it feels like nobody else will if I don’t. So I post intermittently anyway.

I’ll admit I’ve been really depressed since June. For months I could hardly feel motivated to get up and do anything, but I had to, so I did…barely. I wasn’t functional at all for awhile. I think I’m feeling better now; I’m still upset about how Susie went and I still miss her constantly, but I adopted a new ferret in August and he’s the sweetest most affectionate thing. He’s the biggest most obnoxious menace ever, always ripping things up and knocking stuff over, but how can you not forgive a normally hyperactive creature who loves to sit on your lap (and only your lap) calmly and quietly, who follows you around the house, and comes when you call, but who will not do these things for anyone else, ever? It’s love. And my other ferret likes him, too.

Anyway, feeling better, but mostly concerned for the moment with fiction writing. I don’t know what that means for the blog. I hope I can get up the motivation and inspiration to get it really going again. I tried a few weeks ago (you might have noticed) and it kind of just died. Or rolled over and fell back asleep. Or some other inappropriately personifying metaphor.

The “Ashley Treatment”

Friday, January 5th, 2007

I wasn’t going to write about this because it upsets me too much, but it doesn’t seem like any of the major bloggers are exactly jumping on it (I lie–there was an Alas post eventually), which shocks and disturbs me. I expected this to be immediately addressed by at least a few people, but…the only person to do so was brownfemipower. (As usual.) So here I am, since no one else seems to actually care and I just can’t believe it.

I don’t even know what to say about this. There are just no words I can coherently string together well enough to express my total moral outrage.

Short version of events as told by the BBC (linked above):

Parents of a severely disabled girl in the US have revealed that they are keeping her child-sized in order to give her a better life.

The nine-year-old, named Ashley, has the mental ability of a three-month-old baby and cannot walk or talk.

Along with hormone doses to limit her growth, Ashley’s parents also opted for surgery to block breast growth and had her uterus and appendix removed.

They say the treatment will help to improve her quality of life.

I’d highly recommend looking at the parents’ blog since it’s a little more complex than that, but I really don’t want to spend a lot of time just regurgitating the details. You can read for yourself.

Here is what I think: No one should be subject to such drastic medical procedures if they are unable to consent and it’s not absolutely, demonstrably necessary. Period. It doesn’t matter what a person’s level of cognitive development is, everyone is deserving of basic human rights and that includes the right not to have organs removed unnecessarily. (More on that later.) Here’s a choice quote from the BBC article:

George Dvorsky, a member of the Board of Directors for the Institute for Ethics and Emerging Technologies said: “If the concern has something to do with the girl’s dignity being violated, then I have to protest by arguing that the girl lacks the cognitive capacity to experience any sense of indignity.”

It does not matter if she does not have the cognitive ability to protest or understand what is happening to her. That does not mean she is not deserving of the same basic rights as all other people. If anything, this means she is deserving of further protections than normal since she cannot advocate in her own self-interest.

Furthermore, the justifications her parents give are, frankly, BS. No matter how her growth might inconvenience them, I’m sure they could work around it. It might be more difficult to move her around but I’m sure they’re creative people and they could come up with a solution — after all, didn’t they have to figure out how to care for her to begin with, after realizing how severely disabled she is?

Arguing that preventing the development of her breasts is a preventive measure strikes me as wrong. Their (medical, we’ll get to the rest later) reasons are: “Avoiding the possibility of painful fibrocystic growth and future related surgeries. Women in Ashley’s lineage have a history of fibrocystic growth. … Avoiding the possibility of breast cancer. Ashley has breast cancer history in her family.” There are plenty of people at risk for different diseases and cancers; what is important is regular screening. It is not routine and does not make sense to simply remove body parts as a preventive measure just in case cancer develops.

The only preventive measure they are taking with which I can agree is the removal of her appendix. It might be difficult or impossible to tell if something went wrong until it was too late, so that procedure seems sensible to me.

The argument for the removal of her uterus is as such: “Ashley has no need for her uterus since she will not be bearing children. This procedure will avoid the menstrual cycle and all the bleeding/discomfort/pain/cramps that are so commonly associated with it.” There are treatments available such as certain kinds of birth control which could prevent her from menstruating without the need for such an invasive procedure. This is unnecessary in the extreme. (Although I am of the opinion that menstruation is a natural bodily function which should not be inhibited simply because it’s “gross”. If a person finds it extremely unpleasant or painful, that’s different and more than justified. That said, even if I don’t agree, people can certainly do what they want with their bodies–keyword: theirs.)

Then there is the justification that “she won’t need it”. Technically, I suppose, no. Just because she will not use her uterus for bearing children doesn’t mean she “doesn’t need” it. She probably will never walk, either; does that justify amputating her legs? Everyone has a right to basic bodily integrity. There is no reason to remove a healthy body part simply because it will never be, in the most basic utilitarian sense, “necessary”. This argument makes very little sense, and strikes me as extremely callous.

Then there are the other reasons. The frightening ones:

Additional and incidental benefits [of the hysterectomy] include avoiding any possibility of pregnancy, which to our astonishment does occur to disabled women who are abused…

Large breasts could “sexualize” Ashley towards her caregiver, especially when they are touched while she is being moved or handled, inviting the possibility of abuse.

This is, unfortunately, a very real concern. However, I think their approach is misguided. For one, pedophiles will readily abuse her even if she continues to look like a child when she’s older, and not only women with large breasts (or who are even conventionally attractive) are raped. If someone is sick enough to sexually abuse someone so severely disabled, I highly doubt the presence or absence of breasts will have much to do with it.

As for the hysterectomy: I see no reason why this matters. All this will do is prevent her from becoming pregnant should she be raped. That will not change the fact, in that eventuality, that she would already have been raped. That aside, there are plenty of other ways to prevent or end a pregnancy should one occur, none of which strike me really as more or less morally questionable than this course of action already is. This is another case where, as a preventive measure, I doubt it does much real good.

These justifications here deeply disturb me because of how they buy into common misconceptions about rape and rapists’ motivations, and they will do little to help any actual problems which could arise.

I think these procedures are medically unneeded and unethical. But…and this is important…I do not think the parents are bad people. I’m sure they love their child and are trying to do the best thing for her that they can, even though I believe their actions are wrong. It’s very clear that they think this is the best course of action available to them, and the fact that we live in a society where there are not many other readily available options is deeply unfortunate. I do not know that there are many practical solutions which this family can afford. I only know that this treatment is not an ethical solution — and as someone who is deeply concerned with the rights of all people (and other living things) I can do nothing else but condemn what has been done to this girl.