Maybe I should just put this blog out of its misery
July 22nd, 2007Maybe. But the idea of not posting anything else ever is way too painful, even if I never actually get around to it.
I really want to write up some stuff on BDSM in feminism from a submissive angle…I think this is important because there isn’t really enough information out there from the point of view of feminist submissives. By which I mean there’s practically none and what there is isn’t really easy to find.
But I’m trying to start a business and negotiating the beginnings of a relationship. I met an awesome hardcore feminist guy a couple weeks ago with the dominant kind of personality I need in a partner. I know, it’s amazing. I was beginning to think such a person didn’t exist, since most guys with an “alpha male” personality tend to be total misogynistic assholes, or at the least they think my feminist thing is really weird. The other feminist guys I’ve met are very nice and so staunchly egalitarian on principle they would freak out at how I like to be subservient and do whatever my partner tells me to, and if they are kinky they’re not dominant and there’s no chemistry. I also think he’s totally sexy, especially his brain. Some people like dirty talk, I like literature and pinko liberal commie politics, uh, talk. It helps that he’s got a sexy voice. Whew, is it hot in here? Sorry for the tangent.
So, anyway, totally haven’t got the time. I’ll try to get around to it, eventually. No promises. Hell, I could write a whole rambling post just about how frustrating it is looking for a partner who understands how to treat you with respect, as an equal, and has an basic grasp of feminist theory, while still wanting to tie you up and spank you. Maybe I will.
Watch the feed.
July 25th, 2007 at 2:22 pm
Don’t it. That is, put this blog out of it misery. And if it’s of any consolation, if all the interesting bloggers I stumble upon would post every day consistently, then I would have noo time for anyone
I have actually been neglecting my blog reading. but then again, it’s summer (at least where I am), and then things like these usually calm down.
But I soo agree with “how frustrating it is looking for a partner who understands how to treat you with respect, as an equal, and has an basic grasp of feminist theory, while still wanting to tie you up and spank you.” Well okay, possible not the last bit, not sure due to lack of experience
But otherwise, totally. And sexy brains. Yes. The one over here has just not realised he’s a feminist yet ;D
Anyways, good luck with the business, the relationship negotiations and all other stuff. At least I’ll be out here watching for a follow-up…
July 30th, 2007 at 2:47 am
I’ll be sorry if you stop posting. I’ve really enjoyed this blog.
August 7th, 2007 at 3:11 pm
Not to worry! I’m not going to kill it! It’s just going to continue to be neglected.
Quest - Okay, he’s not into the tying up thing, but that’s okay, it was sort of an example. It’s hard to find people you’re compatible with on enough levels, sometimes, especially when you have all the weird quirks I do.